Traveling to my Dad’s home for Christmas. This stopped when it felt like the love that was there was only for what we could give and had to learn this when Dad passed away.
I do want to say that instead of not keeping there are some traditions that I adore and have always carried with me wherever I go and most of them were adorned by my Mother;
- Praying before leaving the house.
- Praying as soon as you get to your destination.
- Sending a text to let those who you left behind know that you got to your destination safe- Mom always says send word, let those who love you know you are safe, it’s like leaving a light on when you travel.
- When I see someone off, I stay until the plane, vehicle or means of transportation take off- it’s something my maternal grandmother held dear and passed it on to us.
- Giving thanks.
Sometimes, as I get older I appreciate the little things that made me feel loved way beyond everything else and some of these little traditions I carry close to my heart.
nilichoandika 