- Alchemy of Souls 1 & 2
- Hannibal– yes, the one that had Mads Mikkelsen. Trust me I have never been so caught up in the art of fine dining and etiquette like I did while watching this series.
- Gilmore Girls– because I love books and coffee.
- Hidden Love– if you want to watch a Chinese Drama- this one right here is one for the books. Oh and there’s (Amidst a Snowstorm of Love too, FYI)
- Guardian: The lonely and great god– this breaks my heart, and I wept every time I watched it, but I never stopped.
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I have my superstitions about a couple of things, does that count?
And I love black cats-there is something ethereal about them.
When I am anxious, I cross my fingers and whisper a silent prayer that things would work out in my favor.
There are days when just holding a pinch of salt, of the thought of sprinkling some of it has had me feeling some type of way that’s reassuring.
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I should have typed this or even recorded this letter for it to have gotten to you. 100 years is but a blink of an eye to you, you old soul.
You have seen the best of people and the worst of them and now when you close your eyes, you dream in color- reminisce the days of your prime and weep at the thought of your friends who have gone before you. I hope your limbs do not cause you pain, and that in all, you got to see your nephews and nieces and their children and their grandchildren.
Thank you for braving the seasons where you yearned for endless slumber.
Thank you for loving truly and whole heartedly and for holding the hands of your nephews and nieces.
Thank you for the books you wrote- the stories that have been passed down from one generation to the next.
Thank you for embracing and thriving in a realm so chaotic that you imagined and brought to life beauty.
And so, maybe I’d call you a Centurion-for you definitely have commanded a hundred legionaries of yourself, into this amazing stardust.
And for each breath, I thank you for those little things you did to get here- this right here is love and beauty from the one who is seeing you in her vision now, seated under that mango tree outside your home, the sound of the river winding her way downstream merging with the voices of your loved ones…this right here is her way of saying you did well Stardust, you did well.
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I would say that when it comes to the things that money can buy, there is always a place and time to access that.
We buy experiences, things and now can always have a photo or video stored somewhere in cloud storage to remind us of these moments.
I do wish for the things that money cannot buy, people cannot fake or denounce- if there was room to experience an abundance of kindness for nature, people and in the utmost pure form…then that would be the ultimate shopping spree.
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I am turning a year older today.
A part of me is excited, while the other knows that I cannot sincerely wait to attend the 2025 Nairobi Design Week– because, what else makes life beautiful if not art and creation and appreciation of it?
On reading: I set my Goodreads Challenge at 100 books this year and so far I am at 15 of 100, and the app successfully tells me I’m at 15%. I found myself adding more books to my Netgalley shelf- and here are some titles I am excited about:
I recently took time to reflect on my reading habits and book acquisition and it seems like stacking and buying books comes more easily than reading them as fast, where I would have beat myself up about it last year- this year, I am not. It’s a good thing, and it’s an opportunity for me to ask; is this working for me? Or is it working against me?
And just like that…have a great weekend.
Truly,
Nilichoandika.
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I learned the hard way that you can be right, choose to do right and stand by what you know deep in your soul is right and still get punished for it.
Last year, I chose to walk away from an organization I truly loved working for- and if things were reversed, I would only hope that I never get to a higher position of authority at work and fail to take into account anyone’s views and misgivings about a decision without taking some time to think through things.
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Write about your dream home.
It’s waking up to the sunlight coming through my bedroom window.
To making my bed, taking a walk around the house to each room drawing curtains, cleaning where I can and settling down to breakfast later on.
This house is not mine, I pay rent at the end of every month to someone else, yet each moment I spend here feels like heaven.
For this is how I dream of my own space, it being a place of comfort and solace and secure, until then I strive to have a little bit of heaven right here.
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I am grateful to have seen a new year.
My family and most of those I hold dear are healthy and optimistic.
I have a new job, and I look forward to doing my best at it while also improving on my understanding of people, places and spaces.
Lastly on this first day, I sincerely hope I can commit to improving on my writing, on this blog and publish more books, starting with the one I couldn’t publish last year.
Wherever you are, may it be well with you. 🤗
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The very first time someone asked me why I write, I shrugged my shoulders and said ‘I don’t know, I just do.’
I was thirteen then.
Truth is, writing is the only way I felt seen and heard, and free. So, whenever I could, I wrote letters to my Father told him about everything that he was missing out on and waited for a response…
Now, having kept at it and published 10 books, all I can say is that I write because I hear myself loud and clear when I do.
What I enjoy most about writing is that despite having done it for so long, I still fear that I may fall short every time I approach a blank page.
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And in those times when the weight on my shoulders and the pain in my chest makes it unbearable for me to breathe, I look to the void, to the place where solace is abound.
And just like that, I know with every breath that I have that spirituality is important in this life that I lead.

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