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  • Speaking of-The Penthouse Prince by Virginia Nelson

    July 30th, 2015

    I love a good romance story.
    Nothing eats me up like a fake arrangement that spins out of control and that’s exactly what happened in Virginia Nelson’s “The Penthouse Prince.”

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    Most romance novels are predictable: people meet, some drama takes place and in the end there’s a resolution which leads to a happy ending, kissing, love making and lots of ” I love you,” phrases- the end!
    But with this there was chemistry between the leads: Camden is the rich boss who doesn’t do love, only business while Jeanie is the one hoping to provide for 5 year old Kaycee.

    It starts out with Camden pushing Jeanie to sign a contract stating the terms of their fake engagement so he can get to buy out his dad’s shares and own the company he runs. He has a friend, Lowe, and Father who see right through his facade but they have no clue as to what he’ll do and whether he will succeed.

    So,  the whole damsel in distress thing did not go down so well with me.  Why does the guy get to be rich and in control while the girl needs saving?
    But, Virginia  tried to make it up to me since she showed that Camden had money, control, power but nothing as close as the comfort and peace of mind that Jeanie could offer. Not bad, but I  still wish she was the billionaire while he was the man in distress!

    Okay, so here’s what I liked about this book (that made me eat it up like cake) : the sequence of events is spot on. There’s no rush, just the right pace throughout the story that builds up to the climax anyone  who loves romance would die for!
    I could talk about the cover,  or go on about the characters or even babble about the plot,  but all that would not hit the target as much as the sequence of events. Nothing felt out of place in the story, and each scene laid the foundation for the next one and that’s what struck me while reading this book.

    You can check out Virginia’s page here for the links to this book. You’ll love it☺

  • My must-have body products.

    July 29th, 2015

    #BlogChallenge : share some of your favorite body products

    For today’s post, I am going to share some of my favorite body products. I do not own any makeup so my apologies on that but these are a must-have for me.

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    Love the Diva soap made by Pwani Oil
    Farmasi’s body splash 💦
    Dark and Lovely body lotion- the pure lemon is so smooth and it gives me that fresh feel, plus it makes my skin glow.
    Coconut oil for the face (I do not apply makeup because my face is sensitive and oily, but with coconut oil, just a splash and am good to go).
    And Usha’s 💋 lipgloss (Ahem! It’s only a hundred shillings but I can’t seem to have enough of this gloss, dry lips are a girl’s worst enemy)

    So, that’s it for my favorite body products. I’d love to know your must haves.

  • Why it’s good to challenge yourself…and complete stuff on that to do list.

    July 27th, 2015

    I shared a list sometime back, do you remember?

    I can cross out numbers 5, 6, and 10! As for number one, am currently on it- got to page 15 of “The Help.” However, I found out something about making lists…you are tempted to complete them. If you manage to complete one task, you find yourself gearing up to complete another, bu on the extreme end…if that list is as long as the twelve labors of Hercules- then you find yourself quitting before you even start!

    I had to get them done over this weekend, and I realized that walking downstairs with my hands in my pockets is uncomfortable and very dull. I felt like I was off balance and after making it down one floor- I released my hands and swung them as much as I wanted.

    Number 6 was the easiest because I had a very busy schedule at work on Friday so much so that I made it thorugh the day without listening to Ed Sheeran and One Direction.

    Number 10: walking around the house backwards for one hour.

    Let’s just say that I have bruises that I did not anticipate like my toes hurting and my left elbow making me kneel over in agony! My sister, Jackie, laughed so much that she almost poured all the contents of her cup- and the dog barked so much that it was a circus for that one hour! It was also refreshing to know that I have not mapped out the house like I thought I had.

    It’s been a lovely weekend and I have started this week with writing prompts and reports- and determination to complete that list!

    PS: This girl is writing book three of The Currents Series titled, Wind, and has been going around the house like a zombie.

  • You can say “No” and move on.

    July 24th, 2015

    Saying “no” can be the hardest thing to do just as saying “yes” can be the easiest at times.
    I do not know what I did right there (with that opening sentence) but it’s been a long day.
    Work took longer than I had hoped but the greatest challenge had to be working with a lady who made it seem like she had no time for me.

    How do you talk to or reach out to someone who wants nothing to do with you?

    Well, I learned today that you sit and wait to be noticed.
    Yes, you sit and wait (for hours)

    So,  there I was in this woman’s office waiting for her to stop talking to another woman about the choir collections and ten o’clock tea. She turned to me scrunched up her nose in the air and asked,  “what do you want?”
    I  thought,  “some courtesy,” but said “twenty minutes of your time,” and I went on to tell her why and then she nodded and I got on with my work. As I sat there all I could think of was something my sister once told me. She said,  “no one’s better than you for as long as they answer to someone else.”

    The woman provided me with the documents I needed not because I was patient but because she learned that I had a famous grandfather who was the founding partner of that school,  but also because I was sent to her by her boss and as such  she had to do as expected of her or face the wrath of her boss.

    As I was leaving,  I looked back at her and wondered how approachable she was to other people and why she did not want to attend to me when all I was doing was my job and not hers. But, what I learned was that it hurts when you’re belittled or ignored while working to improve or change the status quo.
    I also learned that saying “no,” is better than ignoring someone or a task that you do not want.

  • Lessons learned this week.

    July 17th, 2015

    I  wanted to write something, and I started doing so- on Monday: I  traveled to one school miles away from home.  I waited for two hours for the meeting to start,  and it did so two and a half hours later.  They offered me a soda,  but I had to ask,  “do you have strong tea, see,  I do not take soda.”
    The teacher looked at me from the afro on my head to the Bata Sundrops on my feet and said,” No wonder you are so skinny.”
    I smiled and looked down.
    Sometimes it hurts when someone scrunches up their nose or gives you a stare down and says you are skinny, as though it is a crime to be so.
    I gained an ounce of patience that day.

    When Tuesday came,  I  found myself on a motorbike along a dusty road for thirty minutes. I  alighted with brown hair,  eye brows and a different shade of color of trousers. I learned that my sister is wise.  Never leave the house without two types of tissue: wet tissue and dry tissue!

    On Wednesday,  I found  myself dreaming of the weekend. I  had to sleep or get more than eight hours of rest because my eyelids were too heavy to focus at work. I was asked to  drink a soda and eat biscuits and I  politely declined after explaining why I  do not take soda. If there is one word reason that most people understand and accept when it comes to not drinking soda,  it’s got to be- cavities
    I found myself out our doorstep,  hungry,  exhausted and in need of a good night’s sleep. My friend asked,  “why are you so busy?”
    I  asked her,  “have you ever scheduled  meetings with people and had them show up an hour late?”
    She said, “Sure,  it happens all the time at public hospitals,  sometimes you never get to see the  doctor after waiting for half a day!”
    I learned that  I  have a jar of patience,  and ounce of understanding as I climbed into bed in my jeans.

    On Thursday morning I learned that sleeping in jeans is the most uncomfortable thing ever! Next time,  I am taking them off!
    I  had a cup of black coffee and went to work.
    My stomach started rumbling an hour after I  left the house.  I had to buy a banana to fill it up, but I  ended up feeling so constipated to move. I walked for half an hour to get to the  school that day and learned that  I  am as light as a feather. (Well,  someone told me so)

    And today? Well,  today is a Friday.
    I  did some writing.
    I  learned that concluding a week is not as important as how you conclude it. So,  I  treated myself to three cups of coffee,  cleaned the house,  did some  laundry,  worked on my reports,  made supper and sat down to tell you all about it.
    So,  I  will share another picture grid that summarizes my week.

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  • Things to do by the end of this month…or next month.

    July 14th, 2015
    1. Read The Help by Kathryn Stockett index
    2. Visit and volunteer at the New Life Children’s Ministry Home- here in Kisumu.
    3. Finish writing #Wind.
    4. Start working on the complete outline of #Twende. It’s a romance story that’s long overdue (hint hint)
    5. Try walking down some stairs with my hands in my pocket.
    6. Go a day without listening to One direction and Ed Sheeran
    7. Walk into Cerova (yeah- that restaurant in Mega Plaza) and order a plate of chips masala+soda+fried chicken – and finish it!
    8. Buy three different brands of sharpeners! And write reviews about them.
    9. Go take pictures by the lakeside.
    10. Walk backwards in the house for one hour on any Saturday morning!
    11. Skip for twenty five minutes straight!
    12. Make a podcast.
    13. Make a thirty-second video
  • Awards and Writers: I want to win awards too.

    July 8th, 2015

    We were standing on top of a hill overlooking this green valley filled with green maize stalks and grass thatched roofs when a colleague asked me, “having written books, do you ever think or wish that you could win an award, say like other writers like Chimamanda or that guy who was a child-soldier…what was his name?”

    “Ishmael Bear”

    “Yes! That guy, he came to Kenya right?”

    “Yes, he did.”

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    I said and started walking towards a tree hoping to have a moment to myself to think of what he asked me and probably ask myself the same question out loud. He called out to me, “so, do you?”
    I turned and the whole team was looking at me. There was that new girl who loved to smile and chat on her new phone, and that guy who always wore blue shirts to work and never had a pen with him, and the other guy who dozed off in matatus until he drooled! I looked at them and thought, “be diplomatic Dora.”
    But when I opened my mouth, why came out was ,”Yes, all the time.”

    See, it’s not just winning the award or dressing up for an event that I yearn for, but to meet other writers in a set up where all are great but only one gets to go home with the award. It would be a memorable time for me because I would get to learn from other writers about their journey and would leave with a set of books to read to build up on my experience, who wouldn’t want that?

    My dream is to be vastly read. I would rather have my books passed on from one reader to another than to have a short shelf life.

    So, to be honest, what really unsettled me about the question today was that I had never asked myself the same question out loud. I had never asked myself, “do you want to win awards Dora?”
    I had never heard my voice as I asked myself this question and I learned that sometimes your voice is as steady as a rock while telling the world about your heart’s desires.

  • I am reading

    July 6th, 2015

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    Have a great week!

    Choose to start today with a smile and a clear focus of what you’d like to get done by the end of the week.

  • Breathe

    July 4th, 2015

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    It is not in my place to breathe life into you my love. Oh, how I wish I could!
    I would look into your eyes and say, “breathe,” and watch you come alive as swiftly as the eagle soars in the sky.
    You my love are life.
    So, live!
    The only thing I ask is that you smile even when you see me wither away. For we know that I would never cease loving you even as I draw my last breath.
    Do you remember the first time we met? You stepped on my toe as you tried to back up from the raindrops that were being blown your way. It was the most crowded I have ever seen that bus stop!
    You asked for my name and we had coffee right after it stopped raining.
    Remember the day you met my parents?
    I never heard a man stammer that much! It’s still the most favorite memory I have of you! And our love? Remember all of it.
    Remember the bills we paid, the nights where we were so tired to even talk to each other and most of all the kids…

    All I ask of you is to breathe, and if it shall be too hard for you, I will ask the angels to take my last breath and fill your lungs with it, for I love you, just you and only you.

    Picture courtesy of: Flickr

  • Take your readers to work day!

    July 1st, 2015

    I work as a Research Assistant, on a project that focuses on School Water, Sanitation and Hygiene. I visit primary schools in Kisumu County during school days to assess the standards of hygiene and my day involves:

    Waking up
    Getting a matatu
    Getting a motorbike or walking for miles
    Getting to a school
    Talking to the administration an health teachers and students
    Getting on another motorbike or walking to another public primary school.
    Then when all is done, returning home or to the office to share my report.

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    Perks: No sunscreen, lots of exercise, getting to negotiate a lot with people especially on the cost of my fare, meeting lots of school children, seeing lots of clouds, meeting different kinds of headteachers (both stubborn and nice), carrying a back pack, wearing flats-converse-or wellies, reading in a matatu, sitting on a sambaza (which is a small wooden plank set on two seats to create an extra seat for a paying passenger).

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